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At one time senior care was left to the adult children who were more middle aged opposed to being elderly themselves. A growing population are those who are seniors who are actually taking care of their loved ones who are seniors because we are living so much longer. This population who provide senior care will have to find a way to care for themselves and yet have the responsibility of caring for a loved one. Many of these senior caregivers are often faced with hiring senior care or home care services to assist them.

This group of care givers will often have to take on home maintenance, cleaning, and meal preparation and often find themselves in their 70s and their parents who are in their 90s. It is important for them to realize that there is help available and the answer very well may be senior care services or in home care. These services allow the senior care givers a way to enjoy their retirement and life as well.

 

Senior Care for Those Who Have Senior Care Givers

Allen Geiwitz, 71, and his mother Hilda Geiwitz, 95, walking to dinner at the Glen Meadows Retirement Community in Glen Arm, Md. Mr. Geiwitz moved into the community less than a year after his mother did.


First thing in the morning, Allen Geiwitz goes to check on his mother, Hilda, who prefers to sleep in. He sets the breakfast cereal on the kitchen table, along with her pills. A little later, once she’s up, he goes back to fix her coffee.

“I’m there various times during the day to make sure she takes her medications,” said Mr. Geiwitz, 71, a retired computer programmer. “And she likes me just hanging around a bit.”

Mrs. Geiwitz, 95, no longer drives, so her son takes her to doctors’ appointments. He ensures that she has a steady supply of library books and nature videos. The two share dinner each evening with three elderly friends; Sunday evenings, they look forward to watching “Columbo” together on cable.

This vigilance, care givers and companionship have become much simpler now that Mr. Geiwitz can look in on his mother just by walking down the hall. In 2014, he moved into Glen Meadows, the continuing care retirement community in suburban Baltimore that she had entered eight months earlier.

Now, each has a one-bedroom independent living apartment on the first floor.

Mr. Geiwitz often meets newcomers roughly his age who are scoping out the place for their parents. “They look at me strangely,” he said. “But to me, this is the future.”

You can see his reasoning. In yet another consequence of lengthening life spans, the adult children trying to care for people in their late 80s and 90s are likely to be approaching 70 themselves, or beyond it.

They may be wearying of housekeeping and home maintenance just at the point when their parents need more help. Care givers over age 75 spend 34 hours a week assisting their elders, a study by the National Alliance for Caregiving and the AARP Public Policy Institute reported last year.

Across the country, about 1,925 continuing care retirement communities — in which residents can go from independent living to assisted living to a nursing home as their needs mount — house roughly 750,000 people, said Steve Maag, director of residential communities for Leading Age, an industry association for nonprofit senior careproviders. Eighty percent are nonprofits.

So far as he and other industry experts know, very few adult children have moved into their parents’ communities. “But it wouldn’t surprise me to see more of it,” he said. In less expensive regions, a continuing care community could offer a mix of proximity and privacy, and provide the greater levels of care that most older adults of both generations will eventually need.

“It’s remarkably common for children to make big adjustments to take care of an aging parent,” said Philip Sloane, co-director of the program on aging, disability and long-term care at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Sharing a continuing care community, he said via email, represents “a new but logical aging services model.” Where costs are reasonable, “it may well catch on,” he added.

Consider Mr. Geiwitz’s predicament.

A single man, he was already spending three to four days a week at his parents’ apartment. With assistance, his mother and father were able to prop each other up for years. But after her husband’s death, Mrs. Geiwitz, who has diabetic neuropathy and pulmonary disease and uses a walker, couldn’t manage on her own.

Mr. Geiwitz briefly considered moving into her apartment, but caring for a parent alone can become isolating and overwhelming……..

Entire Senior Care and Care Givers Article Below

A Twist on Caring for a Parent: Move Into the Home – The New York Times.